Are you happy of how your life turned out today? Have you always imagined yourself to be where you are today? Or are you simply puzzled and surprised on how everything went? We all have dreams, wishes, expectations that we want to achieve someday. We work and strive hard every single day especially if we have set a goal that we would like to achieve. However, life does not work that way. It is full of surprises, happy and precious moments sometimes disappointments, trials, rough patches along the road, which can either be negative or positive depending on how you take and handle it as well as your outlook in life.
A person’s perspective in life is more powerful and controlling that believe it or not, it can either make a persons life happy or sad. If you are very positive, that you still try to find some thing good out of whatever unhappy or traumatic event you are currently dealing with, no matter what hardships you face, you will still look at life with your head up high. If you are the type of person who can still relax and look at the glass half filled, find the brighter side of things even if you are in the lowest point of your life, then for sure you can manage and balance everything out. You know the feeling of sadness, understand disappoints but you still look beyond those things and charge it to experience that is bound to teach you a lesson and maybe even make you a stronger person. Whatever storm goes to you, it will not shake you and the things you believe in.
On the other hand, if you are a very negative person you will never be really happy in your life. Even if you have a good and comfortable life, no how rich you are that you live in a mansion with your very own Olympic pool, tennis and basketball court, drive a Rolls Royce, Ferrari, Bugatti and other expensive sports car, the owner of a very successful company, have fashion photographers left and right, you will never be fully satisfied because you will always find something lacking or bad in whatever situation you are faced with. Regardless if you are living the life that every person have always been dreaming of, you will never be happy with what you have.
Your life is what you make it. If you choose to be happy, then you can surely manage even if you have poor living conditions, is striving to provide a substantial income to cover up for your expenses and have literally nothing. Opposite to that, if you always find something wrong or lacking with what you have, then you will never fully understand what real happiness means because your level of joy can never be determined. Always be positive and apply this in all aspects of your life.